· What messages do you receive about sex in your context? From the greater church culture?
· How do you see eros, affirmation, and invitation as an eco-system, all needed for a healthy sexual relationship?
· When have you seen this eco-system imbalanced?
CS Lewis says that eros is a desire, not for any person, or for release, but for intimacy with a particular person. How do you respond to this? How is this different than what the culture says about eros?
· If you are married, what role does affirmation and invitation play in your most intimate encounters with each other?
· How vulnerable are you with each other? How do you respond to a "no" from your spouse?
· How do you honor one another in and out of bed?
· How do you cultivate affirmation and invitation in all your relationships? What can you do to express affirmation and honor to those closest to you?
· How is Christ wooing you? What is Jesus affirming in you that you need to hear?
· How do you welcome people into your life?What barriers do you need to remove in your life in order to invite others to know you?
· What step in your relationships is Christ inviting you to take?What must you do this week to take that step?