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We Are All Home

by elizabethh ~ September 14th, 2009. Filed under: Bethany Blog.

Brian Hallberg, Children’s Pastor

I need  more sleep.

Do you remember the last blog I wrote that started out that way? It was when we added our newborn son to our family, with one day’s notice, five months ago. This entry starts with a phone call as well.

During the month of May, the phone rang. This time it was not a social worker who changed our lives; it was a young man named Martell who I had been mentoring for several years. Early in the mentor relationship, my wife and I had invited Martell to move from his current foster home into our home. He was calling to see if the offer was still open. We were humbled by the courage that it took for him to call, and of course, we said YES!

On July 1, Martell moved into our house and became the older brother that Kaleb has always wanted. My wife used to always say before Jacob and Martell came home that “our family is not all here yet.” Within four months, we have added a newborn and a 17-year-old, and we are all home. Our house is certainly full; full of love, full of laughter, and full of true living. Jacob is five months old and sleeping through the nights (when it is my turn to watch him). Becky is five years old and just started kindergarten. Kaleb is seven years old and has begun first grade. Martell is trying not to let his senioritis start too early as he begins his senior year at Shorewood High school.

Karmin and I spend our time feeding, cleaning, doing laundry, helping with homework, giving driving lessons, changing diapers, etc., in what we call our beautiful, crazy life. We have never been so tired, but we’ve never been so happy. Thank you God that Your vision for our lives is so much more beautiful that could have dreamed. Thank you for writing such an awesome story for our family.

1 Response to We Are All Home

  1. Linda Hallberg

    Dad and I are so proud of both of you and how you have followed this path that has been chosen for you. I have always believed that you were my gift from God and I cherished every moment. I wanted God to know that I would do my best to help you grow, learn and be a child of God. Children are so “special” and amazing. Priorities change a person life when you have children and they become a very important and protective part of your life. Every learning experience, every little thing children do is a wonder. I see so much love, pride and happiness in your life which makes me proud. To watch you and Karmin approach challenges with respect and love for each other is so special. I thank God for both of you and our grandchildren. I only hope to be around to watch them grow and experience life. Liebst Du! Mom

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